Are You a New Testament Family?

Family, Thoughts
Our last post about the lessons learned in the story of the lost son rekindled a spark that has been brewing in my brain for quite some time.  One of the major disappointments I face in family ministry is the number of "Old Testament" families I encounter in the church; families that are not experiencing the beautiful unfairness of grace that we wrote about last time.  What do I mean by an "Old Testament" family? It is a mindset that lifts up the principles of the Old Testament as the norm for living the Christian life today.  It likes the formula and predictability of the Old Testament rules.  "Don't do A, or B will happen to you.  Don't do C or you will be punished.  Don't do D or you will…
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Parenting with the Parables – The Lost Son

Family, The Parables, Thoughts
Remember the context of Jesus’ first coming?  His contemporaries viewed the coming kingdom as a national deliverance from foreign oppression and personal deliverance for the righteous.  Jesus turned that idea on its head and proclaimed deliverance for the needy; the sick, the oppressed, the sinner.  The Jewish leaders expected judgment for the sinners, not redemption.  When Jesus ate with those considered “sinners,” it meant acceptance and recognition in their culture.  This coupled with His announcement that the kingdom had come to sinners led to many a protest from the religious leaders. One of these protests is found in Luke chapter 15, “Now all the tax-gatherers and the sinners were coming near Him to listen to Him.  And both the Pharisees and the scribes began to grumble, saying, ‘This man receives…
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Parenting with the Parables – The Unmerciful Servant

Family, The Parables, Thoughts
In the gospels, Jesus referred to His ministry as "new wine" (Mk 2:22); not just an add-on to the old covenant, but something totally brand new.  In fact, I would say it is beyond brand new to the point of being completely revolutionary.  And one of its revolutions was the overturning of the Old Testament consequence model in favor of God's new covenant model of love, acceptance, and forgiveness. Remember, the disciples would have been steeped in the Old Testament eye-for-an-eye model prior to meeting Jesus.  So Peter was actually being quite generous in Matthew 18:21 when he asked Jesus if he should forgive his brother up to seven times.  But Jesus trumped Peter's attempt at generosity by teaching that our forgiveness should be unlimited and illustrates this point with a story.…
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Parenting with the Parables – The Good Samaritan

Family, The Parables, Thoughts
In the story of the good Samaritan, Jesus is responding to a question from a lawyer, "who wishing to justify himself", asked, "Who is my neighbor?" (Lk 10:29).  Jesus answered the question with a parable. A man was going from Jerusalem down to Jericho when he was attacked by thieves and left for dead on the side of the road.  When a priest, travelling the same route, came upon the man, he crossed over to the other side and continued on his journey.  Next a Levite saw the injured man and also passed by on the other side.  Finally a Samaritan - despised by the religious elite who ignored the man - came upon the casualty and, moved with compassion, stopped to tend to his plight.  He bandaged the man's…
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