Last week our friend, Greg Miller, passed away due to cancer. The rapid progression of the disease was a shock. In five short months, Greg went from initial diagnosis of multiple myeloma to death’s door and through to the presence of the Lord.
Greg was a man of faith. Greg believed and we believed and we all prayed for his instantaneous healing. Last Wednesday, Greg was completely healed. But to be honest, it was not in the fashion we had hoped and prayed.
Our friendship with Greg and Dee Dee started when our children shared some homeschooling classes together. As we got to know them, their warmth and commitment to Christ drew us together. Greg and I coached little league teams together. We camped together as families (which always included a baseball game). Our daughters recorded a beautiful Christmas CD together. And don’t forget the carpooling. In Houston, friends show their love by driving each other’s kids around.
Our youngest son, Joe, was a regular at the Miller’s dinner table as was Grant Miller at ours. When Joe and Grant headed off to Texas A&M, we not only felt the emotional loss of the house turning quiet, but on a practical level, we lost our yard crew. It was a big yard.
Our children were in each other’s weddings. We truly have a family connection. And we will miss Greg very much.
Our prayers now turn to Dee Dee and Kari and James and Xander and Eric and Grant and Scott and Rob. We pray for God’s comfort, encouragement, and faith to face the future. Greg is safely home. But the pain and loss for us and more intensely for Greg’s family is great. Dee Dee, we are praying for you.
Greg’s journey also brings into focus our own thoughts of someday being truly home; home in the place God has prepared for us to enjoy His presence forever. But the path to find our way home is different for each of us. Greg’s path touched many lives. His influence in his family and friends and coworkers and missionaries will continue long after the journey’s end. And it is a good and lasting influence.
“Enjoy the reward of heaven, my friend!”